As a friend, your presence and support is so important during this broken time, you can help your friend to survive and your love and presence is a beautiful, wonderful, priceless gift that will assist with the healing process for your friend.
Say something encouraging.
I will never forget the words Kim said to me in her office. “That night that he broke up with you, was the best night of your future husband’s life.”
Bring food.
Drop off groceries, make sure she eats, drop off meals, or just sit with her and make sure she eats.
Keep her busy.
Never let your girlfriends be by themselves too long. She’ll over think and get sad.
Drop off presents.
Leave them at her door if you aren't sure if she's home.
Spend the night with her on the important days so she’s not alone.
The big day that should have been, the honeymoon day, the whatever day of importance. Spend the night.
Pray for her.
With her, and when you aren’t with her. Tell her you are praying for her even when months or years pass she may look like she’s move on but she could still be hurting, or sad.