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A Dream Study – all on sale!

You know I’m always dreaming up new spaces. I said to Benjamin the other day, “I’m out of wall space and I found a new coffee table I like! I need another room to decorate.”

All of these things are on sale – Ashley HomeStore is currently having up to 25% off sitewide from 5/13-6/5. You can tell I’m loving the industrial, rustic, traditional American look – very Mr. Wonderful.

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 SOFA $849 | CHAIR $594 | COFFEE TABLE $314 |  END TABLE $134  |   TV STAND $599  |  CREDENZA $424
FLOOR LAMP $153  |  RUG $562  |  FAUX CORAL $47   |   STOOL $94  |  DESK LAMP $64  |  BOTTLE $60
JUTE STRIPE PILLOW $31 |  LEATHER PILLOW $68 |  STRAPPY PILLOW $45 |   PENDANT LIGHT $229
FERRIS WHEEL $114  |  CANDLE HOLDER SET OF 2 $189  |  THROW $39
BAR STOOL $119  |  NIGHTSTAND/SIDE TABLE $254

So envision this with me – I bust a door through our laundry/mud room wall where the current window is, and you enter a brand new room. It’s another sitting area but also Mr. Wonderful’s new office, just on the other side of our house – I will call this our study.

One of our red brick exterior walls becomes a red brick accent interior wall. The room would have concrete floors with a rug, double french doors that open to the backyard and it would be open for all our summer and outdoor entertaining. It would be so great to have that extra room – one you could be loud in because it’s further away from the bedrooms.

Meanwhile, we could definitely start to transition our current guest room/his office. I’d simply remove the queen bed and replace it with this masculine sleeper sofa, turning it into a study area – much better than a murphy bed idea. I also have my eye on this table lamp set and textured pouf.

Dreaming of a new space too? Check out Ashley HomeStore’s 25% off sitewide sale to spruce up your living areas!

Thank you Ashley HomeStore for sponsoring this post.

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Ice Cream Sprinkle at Dusk

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I wish I had more details to show you, but you know how it goes when you host a party. Just trust me when I say it was one sweet evening. I like hosting parties when they are small – for budget purposes and the intimacy of the guest of honor being around their closest friends. It also allows me as a host to dedicate my time, and budget to spoil those who will be spoiling one of my best friends in return.

Since this is Jennifer’s fourth baby – but it’s her FIRST girl (and last child), a small intimate baby ice cream sprinkle (get it?) for this summer night seemed like the perfect fit. I listed the party from 7 to 8:30 pm, served the ice cream around 7:30, and before 8, had her open gifts, then close with an open group prayer.

If you’re going to throw an ice cream party, here are a few tips:

  • Prescoop the ice cream in the containers, place on a cookie sheet and put in the freezer before the party. Easier to serve, especially on a warm evening.
  • Have popsicles as an alternative treat
  • Have fun with toppings – Butterfinger, OREOS, sprinkles, whipped cream in a can, and cherries to name a few.

I don’t think this will be the last ice cream party I throw this summer!

Ice cream cups, spoons and tablecloth: Target / Bar cart: Wayfair / Hanging Ice Cream decor: Amazon.com
Favor bags: JoAnn Fabrics / Ice Cream Pens (favors): Amazon.com / Ice cream truck printable: Oh Happy Day / Drink Dispenser: Pottery Barn

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My giving tree

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Five years ago I was house shopping with my friend and realtor, Kat. I drove around this particular neighborhood so often I was afraid someone would call me for cruising! I had my eye on this very house but it had a sign on it that it was market pending, which seemed for like, ever.

Then, the night before an appointment with Kat to see probably the 50th house, my parents were in town from California, and I logged onto my computer and up popped THE house on MLS. It had JUST hit the market that night and the next day was it’s first full day that it people could tour it.

We were one of the first people to walk through the home the next morning. I found the inside workable, but when we stepped outside, that’s when I fell in love – look at this beauty.

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A citrus tree! I had seen them throughout the previous homes, it was a huge desire. On our way out, another realtor was on her way in, and I knew the house was going to be a hard one to snag.

And so, the bidding war began.

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I obviously won, and I swear no one could have ever loved this house more – just ask my husband and any of my girlfriends. It’s not just the 1952 brick home, but the 65+ year old grapefruit tree – it could perhaps older, who knows. (We just guess since we know before the homes were built in the 195o’s, these citrus trees were all over, it was a former citrus grove.)

I realized the trees were dying off in our neighborhood. I soon learned fruit trees don’t live as long as normal trees.

I also told my dad I had a hybrid tree – it was a lime/lemon tree! I later realized those were baby grapefruits that were green and the current yellow grapefruits were old ones left on the tree.

“Who told you that it was a hybrid tree?” asked my dad, when I told him.
“I told myself that,” I answered.
“Well that’s your problem right there,” he said.

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We had parties around her, celebrations with my best friends, photoshoots with clients, she made her debut in all our memories and photos over the years. I loved her so much I put a swing on her. Friends pulled up picnic blankets under her and held their babies, this was the giving tree – shade and grapefruits!

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Last week we ordered an oak tree, one that changes colors from green to red in the fall. A worker from the nursery came out to our home to help advise us where it should go, before our delivery and planting date.

We talked about our grapefruit tree and discussed she’d probably make her exit in 5 or so years, so we should prepare for her departure – you know, plant a tree so by the time she passed away, the new tree would be significant enough to give us shade. We even discussed pruning one of her limbs to make room for the new tree.

We settled on a very large California Sycamore tree to put almost right in front of her, to time it just right. In 5 years she’d be gone, and in 5 years we’d have a very large shaded tree that would be the new center of our backyard.

Later that night, Benjamin called me outside alarmed of a smell of smoke – we never figured it out.

As always, even in the dark, I peeked to see the tree, out of habit –  every time I walked by the window I would sneak a peek look at her, she was my scene of comfort. But that night, in the darkness, I saw something strange.

The middle of the tree is gone, as if a dinosaur, a T-Rex, took a large bite out of the top of my tree. A big chunk of her was on the ground, and it was significant I that I thought, oh no, this could be the end.

See photo here. *cry*

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Do you think she heard us that morning about cutting off one of her limbs that it hurt her feelings and she immediately just started to give up? It’s like she tried to commit suicide!

Now I’m not a tree hugger, though I might be becoming one. When you want to spend time with something, give it care, take photos with it creates memories, it’s difficult to not fall in love with something that brings you happiness and be sad when you realize the memories stop – this can be a person, thing, chapter in life.

I have a hard time letting go and moving onto new chapters, especially when the previous chapter was just so good I wanted to stay in it.

Like college.

My dad and mother-in-law think the tree can be kept, for a little while longer anyway. Until I’m ready to let it go, or she’s calling it quits, who knows which will come first. I can still photograph parts around her, she’s just – Getting older. Losing it. Her body is changing.

Ah, sounds like a life lesson, right?

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On my to-do list this week was to film a backyard tour. I know, I should stop going on because I’m twisting the knife. I should’ve pruned the branches, picked more grapefruits to disperse the weight. Shoulda-woulda-coulda. How can one gain a life lesson from the dissolve of a senior grapefruit tree? Let me tell you.

You learn that it’s OK to admit a tree/said thing could bring you joy. You recognize you can fall in love with everyday scenery and even a zillion photos doesn’t feel like it was enough when it’s gone. Then you wish you laid under the tree more, enjoyed the shade, spent more time outdoors, ate more grapefruits, the list of feelings goes on – and regret comes, as it always does in life when good things start to come to an end. Suddenly the tree lesson seems interchangeable with the way we feel about people, and other things that hold significant value in our life.

Then, you give yourself permission to cry a little because you realize it’s OK to be sad because you’re just not ready for tomorrow to be the start of a new chapter, but you know, that’s life and sometimes an even greater chapter awaits.

Diana Elizabeth, Phoenix Lifestyle Blogger and Photographer drawn by Inslee. www.inslee.net / www.dianaelizabethblog.com

I’m so thankful for photos – these taken by my dearest friend Melissa Schollaert, and the fashion shots Kokoon by Melissa Louise. With that said, go on and hug your favorite tree – and talk nice to her, they’re listening.

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